You seem to be getting lost in the details and are not attuned to what some of the more experienced musicians are trying to say to you.
I think if some one said that to you you would consider such statements proactive.
I wish we could have a coequal discussion, where all people are equally worth, and not people riding on high horses saying things like "I have better experience then you" it really kills the discussion, and is not really constructive and right.
I said that the years of experience is of no relevance, some people have it in them some have not, so to make this into some kind of competition who has released most albums and how have been working with certain audio in certai amount of years I find really provocative and arrogant. People use it as their main argument that they have certain years of experience so for that reason everything they say is above others, there is so many artists out there who have been working all life so years of experience say really zero to be honest. Some one achieve the same results in 1 year then the other person achieve in 30 years in terms of sound quality and production.
I think the people responding to your thread have for the most part been very restrained and I think most of the fire has been coming from your direction. I certainly haven't been talking down to you and tried to give you constructive feedback on a piece you posted to the forum. The only biting comments seem to be coming from people who seem frustrated by the generalizations in your responses. Did you ever consider that maybe in your defensiveness you're overcompensating for insecurities about your own inexperience? The best defense is not always an offense.
One other nontechnical word of advice--getting some musical training in performing or music theory, if you don't have some already, will benefit you in the long run.
Finally, while I know you're trying, some of your sentences do not flow well grammatically and at times it can difficult to understand what you're saying.