Started by mgriffin, January 30, 2009, 02:24:14 PM
Quote from: mgriffin on January 30, 2009, 02:47:20 PMThat was one of the things that pushed both me and Lena in the direction of "maybe we should" -- I mean the idea that you're SUPPOSED to, right?But on the other side was a pretty strong feeling that we didn't WANT to. And there are lots of things in life you're SUPPOSED to do that neither of us has wanted to bother with (having a traditional, formal wedding for example), and I think a good argument could be made that if you don't WANT to have kids, if you don't feel pulled and drawn toward the idea of yourself with a child, then you shouldn't do it. The notion that people are supposed to, that it's inevitable, to me that isn't enough reason.
Quote from: bunkdata on February 04, 2009, 10:48:07 AMI We have a 2 1/2 year old girl together (Lena).